Wait until the afternoon, then post your second. In the evening, post your third. There's a shit load of ads being posted and you want yours near the top. Every 48 hrs Cl allows you to "renew" the ad and bump it to the top.
I've had a couple of fun encounters from CL, plus my current girlfriend who I've been seeing for 8 months and I'm hopelessly in love with. There's lots of real women reading CE, the trick is to stand out from the crowd. I did it once.
He didn't want to switch from missionary and he didn't try to get me off at all. I hated it and I was mad at myself. What a waste of a good night. Some of mine have been like that as well! One guy even got us a motel room and busted in 3 minutes and said he was done Experiences like that definitely spoil the fun of it. If you're having no strings attached sex, why not take the opportunity to be really open about what you want?
Or were you and he was just really bad? We talked for about a week before meeting up. He was just really bad.
He was all about being attentive and then wasn't. That happened to me as well! We had a whole night planned out with a room and sleep over and all That was definitely one of my most disappointing sexual experiences ever.
I have thought about posting my own ad. My friend did that And she says the sex was mind blowing. I guess for the most part it is just hit or miss.
In general the sex has actually been a lot better when I responded to ads, but I've had great sex from guys who've responded to me as well.
But like you said it's definitely hit or miss. One time when I made an ad I had a guy marine who responded to me and we got along really well and were super attracted to each other. We had time conflicts traveling so we talked for a month before meeting up in person. Our chemistry was off the fucking wall, we didn't end up having sex but even just fooling around I could tell he would've been great in bed.
He has since deployed and will be gone for 2 years. But that's very difficult to find that type of chemistry so don't rely on craigslist to find an attraction that strong. Although for another example, I made an ad today and I couldn't have sex with the guy today time didn't permit , he drove to my house and I went outside to give him a blowjob in his car. He was pretty satisfied and hopefully he'll hit me up soon for sex.
He was pretty hot and smelled good despite just coming back from the gym LOL. Lots and lots of fake posts but I did get responses from real women, from there I met up with the most attractive one. She had a huge cum fetish and I was really horny at the time so yea It was pretty fun, she basically had me visit her office after hours and then gave me 2 blowjobs and swallowed all my cum while playing with herself to get off. It was my first time being with someone so enthusiastic about oral and really good at it and my first time being deepthroated or titfucked by a woman with large breasts.
Yeah plenty of times, but it's very hit and miss. Most of the guys I've met were kinda meh, but three guys in particular were amazing. All were marines and really great fucks. You're definitely going to meet some sketchy people on there, so use protection even if they say they're clean. Also very dishonest people as well, one of the guys I was with was married with a newborn and I have no idea how he got "permission" to stay the night in a hotel with me.
Also you'll encounter a lot of fake people on there who will lead you on and flake on you. If anything ask for their kik and ask them to take pictures on the Camera app, so you know they're not using fake photos. Or use an app like Skout or Tinder.
For a male i found it to be all pro's or scams. I posted an ad for NSA sex. I received over replies. Most were just cock pics, with a message that read, "hey, baby" and that was the extent of the communication. Only about 10 of them complied with my request to put their favorite drink in the subject line. One hour after I posted I had received one death threat and three different messages calling me names for not responding.
I chose a guy who wrote a real message. There was punctuation in it! My hope had been to find a hook-up for that weekend, but after many creepy messages, I slowed down. I chose a guy who had made me laugh. We talked for about a week everyday and then met for coffee.
He was hot and funny and it was on! We would meet up randomly, whenever we could manage. Mediocre conversation, but I wasn't shopping for conversation. As a female, it was a bit scary. A lesson in caution, I think. I have since searched a couple of times on Craigslist for NSA sex. Once I was stood up by the same guy three times. The other time was much like my first experience: For women it's really easy. You have a shit ton of guys send you responses Sometimes I have the same really ugly dudes try to respond to my ad at different times and it's kind of infuriating.
Some also will just do it for the sake of trolling if you post your ad with photos or have too many specific requirements. I didn't believe the latter part at first but after having people reply to my e-mails and tell me I'm "fake" or a "whore" or "flagging just for laughs", it happens a lot more. It's pretty discouraging for real women who want to use craigslist.
Also forgot to mention about another guy who I met who was an incredible find on craigslist. I was working in Hong Kong and this guy was an Australian expat who was a few years older than me.
We both met with no expectations of anything happening and we got along very well throughout our drinks so we ended up back at his place and had a very hot and passionate night of incredible sex. He was cute and average, but man was he great at sex! I'm a girl, started to post ads on CL a couple of month back new year, new adventures yea? Did not know what got into me and did not know where I found the courage to post such thing.
Was brought up and hang out within a semi-conservative community, so essentially casual hook up is frowned upon. One day I was thinking what the heck, let's do this. My first encounter was meh. Second time with a different guy was nice actually, he was shy but friendly, had a good time but never met again. Third time was boring. Fourth time was with an army just got back from Afghanistan. Was bad cause he came too quick.
Finally fifth time was a charm, the guy was nice, had a nice home, and was really good with his tongue. Ultimately, the sixth guy that I met on CL was my favorite so far.
He is much, much older than me, about 20 years older. He is single, have a nice job, nice car nice place. We watched movie at his home and had sex, and in the morning he even made me breakfast.
So, basically, it's a trial and error process. You might meet someone you have chemistry with, or someone blergh. I say "current" like I've had one before, but that's not the case.
Anyhoo, I was browsing my city's CL, replying to the ones I found interesting, just to throw as many hooks into the water as possible, basically. Was just coming here to post about this.
Met my best friend on there, he and I still thank each other for not being a murderer Is the closest alternate I found. But there are very few ads or none in some sections - but I imagine that will pick up soon. The hell you on about? It was also created by a group of Democrats. Reddit's personal sections are actually good; there may not be many people, but the vast majority ARE real people, even if they don't post their picture in their ad.
Check your city or state. So many great people are still in my life because of the site. My and my BF met through CL, after we both spent many years exploring our sexuality through the site. I know my BF will too.
Is there some way we can recreate that, but avoided all the legal crap that CL would have to deal with? There enough smart people in here how hard would it be to recreate Craigslist and call it Craigslust or something silly like that. Instead of a degrading "why has no one swiped right on me" process like tinder or yellow, where you run out of people in your area, it was a cool email function where you could anonymously tell people what you wanted to try, what you were looking for, and say a lot more about yourself to people online without scaring anyone off.
Instead of judging their looks first and running out of matches till you eventually go "well They really still could find a happy relationship, or meet some cute ass people, experiment, or finally fulfill their fantasies, so Plus, god, it was flattering and such a massive self esteem boost back then; hundreds of anonymous email responses to date or sex ads, exploring things, all that I'm gonna miss it.
It getting removed really caught me off guard, especially from all the dope ass people ive met there. Or one that can be like, both legal AND effective, not anything where the only results involve fake spam bots 92 miles away, so yeah I'm going to make a prediction, that this will encourage the rise of something like a block-chain forum that is "not hosted by anyone".
When that happens, they'll probably regret this type of legislation. It's sad that it was a conservative bill that introduced this. Conservatives have always held that laws can't control human nature nor people. This will drive the bad element underground and make it harder to track, meanwhile the legitimate users lose out. It's also sad that a great service has been ruined by spammers, scammers, botters, and yes, unfortunately criminals.
There was a very legitimate use for the personals several, actually. So now we all lose, for lack of other solutions. I'd like to get in touch with someone I've been emailing. To test it, I responded to my own ad using a different email address, and it went through. So, for now, they are still working if you want to reply but I wouldn't count on them staying active for long.
Best to exchange direct email addresses even if you have to set up a junk email address to do so. Not everyone is using it to meet hookers a lot to people actually gained true relationships from this site at least they should have kept personals for relationships and removed the sex encounters part.
I heard of a site called https: We are working on fixing the issue!. Please come back in a litlle bit. The posting capability is still working so - POST an ad and it will go live as soon as possible!
It has both desktop and app versions you can get the app on Apple and Android. I met a few cool women and ppl thru these personals and as usual our gov. Is ruining fun things when they should be worried about larger issuers than some damn potential local prostitution on a website. Now what the fuck do I do? This is coming from a guy who lost his v card in a park from a girl I met on craigslist. Best 10 seconds of my life! I'm not surprised this had government action taken against it, it's ironic that some of the most successful people can function normally in law, politics, medicine, science, art, technology etc.
I encourage everyone that agrees or disagrees with my post to at least watch this YouTube video by Anonymous:. Been using it since around Met hundreds of people, good and bad but mostly good. We still post pics of her sometimes just for shits and giggles. Really, weirdly sad to see this go Tampa Pride is coming up in my city tomorrow. I want to know how the hookups are going to play out, since there's no Craigslist to post..
Had to weed through a lot of BS, spams, fakes, and flakes, but, I did score a few good fwbs. Sad to see it potentially gone forever. The intent of the bill, rather. On some other shit, my opinion is neither true nor false.
I know what you are saying. But the execution of it is absolutely moronic. Its like shutting down the entire egg section in a supermarket because a few of the eggs were rotten. Then people will just look to the black market for their eggs. But you get what I mean. These bills are not going to solve anything. They are just creating more problems.
Sure, it was like looking for a needle in a haystack most days, but I had many successful and fun dates from that site. It was always a good place to go, when I just wanted a handful of replies in a short time haha. In fact, just had a great date last night from there. I feel like they'll come back around again, just have to come up with some legal jargon to add to the site or verification or something. I cannot begin to discuss how horrible this decision was by Congress.
My wife and I were just getting into finding friends, as she has finally seen the light, and we were enjoying the ability to post and filter through the options as we saw fit. There is nothing quite like CL personals and I have no idea what we are going to do now to find friends, safely, discretely, and conveniently.
Is there any truth to this? Anybody think CL is protesting somehow? OMG - Where will I find broke str8 guys ha to suck off now CL was my goto for an endless supply of horny men that wanted some head and a few bucks. You paid guys to suck them off? I'd think guys would lay back and enjoy it without expecting anything. Anything where users could break any law, now CL can be held responsible.
Obvious with the prositutes on there, cl couldnt risk it. Other things that facilitate drugs might be taken down too. Wow, the Craigslist personal sections was iconic! Met some fun people on CL.
I should probably write about it. And today Craigslist actually took down all the personals sections. The US just ruins it for everyone. Please vote in more sensible people. As a man who was using it to hopefully find a couple to explore group play with, I'm at a loss on where to search now.. We made a local alternative for Buffalo and Western NY.
It's exactly like Craigslist casual encounters. Give it a try. It's new and growing but it functions like cl so you won't see any spam garbage or bait and switch marketing. It's practically the same interface. Probably not too much in the long run as most desperate people will find other methods to find hookups. Any tool or service can be misused.
We can't take such risk without jeopardizing all our other services, so we are regretfully taking craigslist personals offline. Hopefully we can bring them back some day. To the millions of spouses, partners, and couples who met through craigslist, we wish you every happiness!
The results pages are still there, but when you click any listing, you get: If it was passed by Congress but not signed by the president why are they acting like this is a law already? The quality ranged from bad to hot, and in one exceptional instance, a ridiculously hot chick from Maldova. But the government cannot fucking monitor the free trade of sex on the internet.
This is an absolute outrage. The best substitute that currently exists is Swinglifestyle. Does anyone know where the sex addicts will flock next? We need another outlet. Keep your ears open please. If you posted personal ads like I did for years, yes that's what you are.
It was free-trade for sex. Yes it was mostly full of scammers and bots, but I met great people. I would love to see how this effect daily traffic to the site. How do we find that data? Well so much for casual hookups I've had some of the best pussy from CL.
Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. Want to add to the discussion? It was a very cool thing for a very long time. Leave craigslist alone, and bring back the personals! NO ONE is going to sponsor a bill against this. Hopefully a lawsuit may happen that changes it. Is the app better? This is just the final nail.
To bad, I already scheduled an hour with your sister. Single, White Boat, Fremont, big transom, custom bouys, and nice cleats. This is a total bummer though. It's never too late to change. Ive had more of my time wasted on Reddit that on CL. Ive had much more luck even starting years conversations on cl. I sent one earlier, I hope to have a reply. I tried emailing some people now to see if it's still working.
RIP a lot more of the internet than just Craigslist. I use it on occasion to flip things up a bit. I have used it dozens of times.. If you're in the Bay area, post to the personals in Windsor..